The Ultimate Evil

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“Dance Moms” Seems To Give In To Pedophile Demands

It’s no secret that pedophile forums are a frenzy of excitement during each new episode of “Dance Moms” and “Toddlers and Tiaras.” I, even, posted a snippet of a comment on a post I wrote back in August:

“jeff809 writes: Dance Moms , nominated Sexiest new show on GC! [Girl Chat – pedophile message board]

jeff809 writes: Can watch and record for later pleasure with noone knowing. Sweet little secrets. Wish all could be my lf! [“little friend” – pedophile slang for boyfriend/girlfriend]

Socrotes writes: omg!! ikr?! [I know right] i just want to slip my hand up that little maddies poofy skirt and welcome her to womenhood.! 

jeff809 writes: I’m really releaved the ages stop at 13. Who wants to see bouncing knockers? so grossed out at tht point

Socrotes writes: no longer atractive when the pubes start. as soon as buds form its time to get another lf

lgluv4lyfe writes: What do you all think of the coach Abby Lee?

Socrotes writes: ANGEL!!!!!!!!!!!!! she brings out the sexy tigress in them!!! makes me sooooooOOOOoooo wetttt!!!!

jeff809 writes: Hero worship time! 

lgluv4lyfe writes: Agreed. I’ve visited dance studios with the niece to scout. No other dance coach gets their girls to release their sexiness like her. She has a way of making them welcome their natural sexuality. I am a big fan of how she makes the moms go along with her. I could learn from her!

Socrotes writes: we need a Abby Lee fan page. 

jeff809 writes: Second that!

Socrotes writes: might send AL a thank you note ;;;;)))

jeff809 writes: hehehehehe 

jeff809 writes: ask for more sexy costumes

Socrotes writes: tru dat. not enough soft little tummies showing. need mooooooor!!

lgluv4lyfe writes: God in heaven I died when she had them slap their little behinds. Tivoed it and until I cum! 

Socrotes writes: yyeeeessssssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!

jeff809 writes: YEEESS!!!“

**It gets far worse, much more explicit pertaining to sexual acts they wish for each of the girls and how they would get them away from the easily controllable moms if they were instructors there.

Now, it seems, Abby Lee has answered the pedophile dream. Her latest assault on the innocent girls involves portraying them as topless burlesque dancers.

Dance Moms hits a new low: Girls as young as EIGHT wear nude bikinis and dance burlesque routines in front of their mothers

Lifetime’s Dance Moms has hit new lows by asking its child contestants – the youngest of whom is just eight-years-old – to dress in nude bikinis and perform a burlesque routine on stage.

The raunchy dance moves are usually the domain of striptease experts, the X-rated acts brimming with nudity, nipple tassels and sexually explicit poses.

But a clip from this week’s show sees dance teacher Abby Lee Miller dressing the children in tan bikinis to give the audience the impression of full nudity, before asking them to act as if a man ‘cant’ afford’ them.


There are many more blogs popping up about this now. This is another and I encourage you to read the comments. The ones by pedophiles are glaringly obvious.

In this episode receiving world-wide attention and scrutiny (and many around the world demanding to know what is happening to America), Abby tells the girls, “‘the audience should think that you are nude,” and she tells them to have an attitude of “I’m hot, I’m mean, you can’t have me, you can’t afford me.”

It’s very clear all of the girls are uncomfortable, and 8 year old Mackenzie says, “I don’t want to be naked on stage.”

Abby replies to their concerns by telling them, “You give the allusion that you’re nude underneath the fans. We all know you’re wearing tan bras and tan pants.”

Nice way to A. completely disregard their modesty, and B. admit how you figured out a loophole to get away with producing a child strip show.  Let’s be honest here.  If the rules permitted it, she would’ve made them go on completely topless.

When asked about the feelings of the moms surrounding this routine, Abby Miller says, “Everyone in in the industry knows the girls are completely covered and everything is harmless… These mothers need to stop questioning me. What I do works.”

Well, Abby, we know what you do works wonders for pedophiles.

The moms express concern but in the end, go along with it. You know, instead of doing what any REAL mother who actually LOVES her child would do and pulling them out of there. Then, once in the car, call the police to report the child sexual abuse taking place. Of course, none of the moms of these girls will ever be confused with loving moms, the kind of mothers who would never permit the sexualization and mental abuse these women have permitted since the first day they enrolled their children in Abby Miller’s school.

There is a light at the end of this disgusting tunnel of child exploitation. This episode has awakened a LOT of people to just how far a person like Abby and mothers like these will go at the expense of innocent children. Even die-hard fans are outraged and vowing never to watch the show again. Take a look at the “wall” of the official Dance Moms Facebook page. There are still a few fans commenting, but for the most part, people are calling for her arrest and an investigation of the moms allowing this blatant child abuse to continue.

My last post about “Dance Moms” was about boycotting the show. While this could help in small ways, the best way to stop this attack on these children (since their moms are getting paid not to) is to hit the show and Lifetime where it hurts the most: the bank account.

I was asked if I knew who sponsors the show because for this kind of boycott to happen, the companies who pay for air time during the show have to be contacted and warned about a boycott if they continue to support the show, followed by a boycott of the products if they refuse to pull their ads.  It’s been done with other shows and it works!  In answer to the question, I went to the Lifetime Network site, where you can watch  full episodes of “Dance Moms.”  Within those videos are sponsor ads. Of course, ads during the shows on television must be considered, as well.

The episode I watched was Ep 8 “Runaway Mom”, and these were the sponsors for that online episode:

Geico (twice)
America Cotton Producers

And I have to add that in this episode, she wants the girls to wear garters with wedding dress costumes. Everyone knows what the garter represents.  The dads were invited but only one showed up. Big surprise. Even bigger surprise is that she yelled at his daughter right in front of him and he did nothing. Even after this latest child porn episode, we don’t hear much, if anything, from the dads. This clears up any expectation of REAL fathers being in the girls’ lives.

I ask anyone  who has a complete sponsor list for “Dance Moms” or “Toddlers and Tiaras” to please leave a comment with this list, as well as a link to any group spearheading a sponsor-centered boycott.

March 9, 2012 Posted by | Uncategorized | 11 Comments

Confronting A Careless Mom With A Terrifying “What If” Scenario

Back in 2008, I posted an article about the dangers of family decals on vehicles. This is the link: The Dark Side of Those Cute Family Decals.

A few months ago, a Bikers Against Child Abuse posted the following personal account:

“I couldn’t help myself today. I saw a minivan parked here at the hospital with those stickers in the back window of each family member and their names. The lady exiting the vehicle was in her late 30’s, well dressed and rather attractive. While she was still at the vehicle I walked up and struck up a conversation with her using her name and also her husbands. I fabricated a story of how we had met before and convinced her of that by talking about one of the local night spots where we hung out. She assured me that she remembered and began talking about how much fun it was. I then asked about her kids to which she told me a story about her daughters birthday party and invited me attend. At that point I had to stop her, hand her a BACA Trifold and a window sticker and explain to her that her stickers were putting her and her children at risk. She tried to defend family pride until I asked her when that birthday party was again. She thanked me and walked into the hospital. I just looked out the window at the van and it is still there but the stickers are not. There is a new BACA sticker in her rear window where it use to be.”

I am honored to know BACA Opie and so many like him who aren’t afraid to speak up for children they have never even met!

February 26, 2012 Posted by | B.A.C.A., Child Advocates, Dangerous Trends | 11 Comments

Happy New Year!

Slowly making my way back into the swing of this blog. Please bear with me while I approve all pending comments and reply!

Thank you for the continued visits and support, the private messages, the suggestions and alerts, and for the passionate concern for children! Whether you are an outspoken contributor or one who regularly speaks to me via private comments or one who chooses to post a thought or suggestion anonymously, you are all very much appreciated!

I hope 2012 brings you the health, warmth, and happiness you deserve!


January 9, 2012 Posted by | Uncategorized | 4 Comments


Hello! I want to thank everyone who has left comments during the last week. I sincerely apologize for not approving your comments and for not responding. I have been unable to get to my computer as often or for as long as I usually do. I like to approve comments when I know I can respond; otherwise, I will forget about the comment. Especially if it is on a much older post.

I want you all to know I truly appreciate your attention to the pandemic of child abuse and your eager participation on this site. I want to demonstrate my gratitude and respect for your time by giving your comment the consideration it deserves. Please be patient as I should be back to full business by the first of December.

Thank you again!

Jade Falcon TUECAA

November 23, 2011 Posted by | Uncategorized | 2 Comments

Pedophile Babysitter Provides Evidence Against Herself

I cannot express enough how important it is to do a thorough background check on anyone in care of your children. In this day and age when we know about sexual predators and violent adults working with children, there is absolutely no excuse to assume the person you are hiring to watch after your child is completely safe.

There are many companies that offer background checks for a very small charge, you can research for free through criminal records, you can do extensive interviews with previous families and the CHILDREN the person cared for in the past, there are websites which let people post their experiences with babysitters and child care facilities, and there are Nanny Cams. provides a list of resources to find a safe caregiver and helpful links for parents and expecting parents. There is simply no excuse to allow such a predator into your home and into your child’s life.

Considering this woman had photos and videos from the entire time she babysat, and she was discovered to have molested at least one other boy in her care (so far), the fact that this is her first arrest in this matter means almost nothing. Pedophiles nearly never get caught their first time, or second, or third. In fact, it is estimated that by the time a pedophile is finally arrested for the first time, he or she has victimized dozens of children.

Below two recent articles about the pedophile babysitter is information on warning signs your child may be a victim of child sexual abuse and links to how pedophiles groom their victims as well as the parents. Educate yourself on not only signs of what makes your child a target, but learn what to look for to know if your child is being victimized.


Officials: Baby-sitter made videos of molestations

By Bob Kasarda, (219) 548-4345 | Posted: Friday, October 28, 2011 3:30 pm

VALPARAISO | A 21-year-old Wanatah woman is charged with 13 felony counts on accusations of sexually abusing a 3-year-old boy in the bedroom of his Chesterton home where she was baby-sitting.

Tara Tryon, of the 6900 block of Volk Road, is being held without bond at the Porter County Jail until her initial hearing Monday before Porter Superior Judge Bill Alexa.

The abuse came to light when an anonymous caller contacted LaPorte County authorities about forwarding to them an email containing photos and videos of a woman sexually molesting a young male, according to court records. The caller identified the woman as Tryon.

The caller mailed memory cards containing the photos and videos to the LaPorte County Sheriff’s Department and the Valparaiso office of the Indiana Department of Child Services.

One of the memory cards was passed along to the Indiana State Police, which discovered 39 photos and two videos reportedly showing Tryon involved in various sex acts with the child. Police also identified the anonymous caller and the person who originally received the images.

The parents of the young boy confirmed Tryon watched their child in their home and verified the images were from the boy’s bedroom.

Tryon is charged with five Class B felony counts and one Class C felony count of child molesting, along with seven Class C felony counts of child exploitation.

Class B felonies carry a potential sentence of between six and 20 years behind bars, while Class C felony convictions could result in two to eight years.


Police believe Valpo woman molested at least one other boy

By Bob Kasarda, (219) 548-4345 | Posted: Monday, October 31, 2011 11:30 am

VALPARAISO | Prosecutors believe at least one other boy may have been molested by a 21-year-old Valparaiso woman who made an initial court appearance Monday on charges of sexually abusing a 3-year-old Chesterton boy she was baby-sitting.

Deputy Prosecutor Cheryl Polarek said investigators have found a sexual image of at least one other boy among the videos and photographs believed to have been made by Tara Tryon.

Anyone whose children have come in contact with Tryon is encouraged to contact Indiana State Police.

Tryon pleaded not guilty Monday to six felony counts of child molesting and seven felony counts of child exploitation related to allegations spanning Oct. 17, 2008, to May 2. The exploitation charges stem from allegations of recording the alleged abuse.

The case came to light when an anonymous caller contacted LaPorte County authorities. Police said they were provided with 39 photos and two video recordings showing Tryon involved in various sex acts with the child.

Bond was set Monday at $50,000 surety and $10,000 cash for Tryon, who appeared in court wearing shackles and the green-and-white-striped garb of a maximum security jail inmate. She likely would need to come up with $15,000 to await trial out of jail.

Polarek had requested a much larger $200,000 cash bond, arguing Tryon is a flight risk and a significant danger to the community. She said Tryon was preparing to leave the area when she was arrested and is believed to be responsible for other molestations.

“We do believe there may be other victims out there,” she said.

Tryon’s attorney, Bob Harper, sought a $20,000 surety bond, saying his client has no criminal history and was preparing to go to the laundromat, not flee the area.

A trial was set for Feb. 27, with preliminary hearings Dec. 16 and Jan. 20.

Each of the five Class B felonies carry a potential sentence of between six and 20 years behind bars while the eight Class C felony convictions could result in two to eight years each.



According to Love Our Children USA, 98,000 children every year receive treatment for sexual abuse. Love Our Children USA reports that infants often develop problems because of the psychological or physical ability to cope with the molestation. There are different warning signs of molestation that all parents and caregivers should
be aware of when caring for a baby.

Genitalia Signs

Trauma or damage to the genital area can be a sign of sexual abuse. According to Safer Child Inc., an important clue that your baby has been molested is if you find bruising, swelling or bleeding in the genital area. This type of clue is often noticed during a diaper change or when bathing the child. Although there are some other medical reasons your baby might have small amounts of blood in his diaper, including diaper rash or bleeding from a circumcision, bleeding along with swelling and bruising is not normal. Make sure you try to observe your child’s body when performing these tasks, especially if you have any concerns of this nature. A Safer Child reports that parallel or round bruises, perhaps in the shape of fingers or bruises, in different stages of healing can be excellent clues. In addition, Safer Child also reports the genital area may also have a discharge or the child may have pain when he urinates or has a bowel movement. Never overlook this clue; immediately take your baby to a pediatrician for evaluation.


A molested baby will often cry excessively. According to Safer Child, crying can come about without any annoyance. The baby may be especially upset when in the care of the molester and may begin crying immediately in her presence. Yes, babies do cry and some even cry much more than others do. However, if you notice a pattern or your infant crying excessively around a particular caregiver you should never leave her alone with that caregiver because the crying could represent more than attachment issues.


Love Our Children USA reports that a baby may experience an uncommon wariness of other people or new situations. He may become very upset if he thinks his parents are leaving him, and no amount of reassurance will appease the child. This can be a clue that is a little tougher to discern from a baby attached to his parents. In addition, Safer Child reports that sexually abused babies may exhibit such signs as lying very still when being played with or examined by a physician. This may not be a likely sign that some parents would notice but an alert physician might observe this slight sign.



If your child displays any of the following signs, it doesn’t mean that they’re a victim of sexual abuse – yet sexual abuse should be considered as a possible cause:

* Fondling
* Intercourse
* Exhibitionism
* Using kids for prostitution, in pornographic materials and as sexual objects
* Lack of interest in usual activities or unusually withdrawn
* Changes in temperament or interests
* Insecurity and fears
* Unusual and unexplained aches and pains
* Extreme behaviors, nightmares, outbursts of aggression, poor concentration, anger, depression
* Excessive masturbation
* Bed wetting or soiling
* Hesitancy to be alone with a certain person
Age inappropriate sexual knowledge, promiscuity and language
* Sexually transmitted diseases
* Sore, red, bleeding, itching, burning genital areas, discharge and unusual odors
* Pain on urination
* Stained underpants
* Self destructive behavior
* Acting more immature and infantile
* Depression or withdrawal from friends or family
* Seductiveness
* Statements that their bodies are dirty or damaged, or fear that there is something wrong with them in their genital area
* Refusal to go to school
* Delinquency/conduct problems
* Aspects of sexual molestation in drawings, games, fantasies
* Unusual aggressiveness, or suicidal behavior
* Unusual interest in or avoidance of all things of a sexual nature
* Statements demonstrating unusual amounts of sexual knowledge
Sexually explicit drawings
* Sexual interaction with other people, animals, or toys
* Preoccupation with sexual matters
* Sexual promiscuity (multiple partners)
* Reports of unwanted sexual experiences
* Adolescent prostitution
* Significant weight gain or loss
Unusual distancing from the family
Decrease in achievement
* Unusual wariness of other people and new situations
* Running away
* If a child talks about an adult’s undergarments
* Acting out
* Self-destructive behavior
* Use of alcohol and/or drugs
Regressive behavior

What You Should Know: Targets, Grooming, Symbols and Initials

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November 2, 2011 Posted by | Uncategorized | 17 Comments


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